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Me and my life 

I started this blog with only one idea in my mind. I wanted to understand what exactly is blogging and how is it done. Wait, let me make one thing very clear, that I am not at all intretsed to make money by blogging but if ever I get the opportunity to earn, I have no issue with it.

So I choose this site which made my blog page very easily. But the very next question was what will I be blogging off ? I am presently living a mediocre life in a metro city of India. Striving hard to earn livelihood for myself and my family with hardly any adventure in my life. 

I do have some hobbies, which well are not so unique but very special to me. But then writing about them will not be so exiciting. So after thinking for a while I decided to write about life in general.

Life, I know is such a common word which we use daily thousand times in our communication. Boss shouts on your colleague in front of you, you patt his/her shoulder and say “it is part of a life don’t worry. “You don’t get a seat to sit in a metro while going back home when you are tired and need the most, you smirk and say to yourself “what a life.” You follow your favourite person on Instagram/Twitter and go through his daily post and pic, envy him and show them to your friends and say “he/she is truly living a splendour life.”

Life, we all celebrate, curse , envy, blame, spend, live every moment. We do all this in our life, with our life and never ever try to understand that all this is possible for us only because we are blessed with a Life.

So here I am, and I have decided to blog about Life, it can be anybody’s life, yours, mine anybody’s. I will in my subsequent blogs try to express various forms of a human life in every aspects of society within my country and place/society I get opportunity to live in with.

Thank you and do comments whatever you feel like and kindly tolerate my typo/grammatical errors if any.

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Give them the freedom

Read it in a article today which was about students in India commiting suicide, reason being not able to manage the pressure of studies and exams etc.

At the end of the article the reporter mentioned that he met a student who was returning back to home to tell his parents that he can’t clear the competitive exam for which he was here, and he is not simply made for it. But when he was asked, that what would he really like to do in his life?  He replied that he don’t know, because he has never been so free to think what he really want to do!

Today you will meet many of them who really don’t know what they want to do with their life and to be honest even I don’t know, what to do with my life? But not knowing what to do in your life is not a issue but not having the freedom to make choice in your life is a big problem for our kind. 

So,  is it true that the youngster of  a typical middle class society of my country have never being given the freedom to choose what they want in their life?

I think the main reason behind it is also the nomenclature of our society. Here in my country, people marry early, have kids as soon as they are married and then all those things which they couldn’t achieve in their life, becomes the liability for their children. 

Childrens are never given the freedom to choose what they want, but it is expected from them that they must shoulder the responsibility as soon as possible. Completing the education which parents think is good for them and then securing a job and finally get married and have kids. Hence keep the  cycle running. 

We have to understand that every guy is not born to be a Engineer, Doctor etc. This is not the only choice left in our country. Yes we are a developing country but unless and until we don’t give the coming generations the freedom to choose and express their qualities, we are not going to move ahead at all. 

Life in 21st century is born with many dimensions and possibilities. Yes it was not so some decade ago but now it is. Technology and creativity has shifted their paradigm and has opened many possibilities for youngsters to flourish and achieve everything they want. Yes their will be competition and yes it will be tough too, but then they will never give up here,  in their chosen field because they will be loving every challenge thrown at them.

So as a parents, rather that expecting some outstanding stuff from your childrens, provide them with all the options and opportunities of this world and let them choose for themselves. 

Let them make their own mistakes and let them learn from them. Let them face the storms of their life and let them rise from it with glory. Yes do abide them with strength and character and bless them from your heart. 

Copyright ©Vishal Raut

Fancy being a Child again?? 

Choice to do what we have to do in a life. Choice to be with whom we love, choice to have what we like. Having choices at every moment of life, won’t it be a ideal life?? 

Well today as a grown up, we do have to choose among our options at every stage of life, some we do it consciously and some sub consciously, but most of the time we choose, not what we want, but what we think is the best for us at that moment. At least  it happens with most of them in my country. 

The freedom to choose what we loved, which a baby child has is Surreal and fascinates me a lot. Yes, a baby child is innocent, gorgeous, and sometime behaves insanely too. But the marvelous advantage of being a child is most of the time you get what you want, because your choice is stated firmly and approved most of the time. 

A simple smile or a loud wail of cry states very profoundly what they want and what they don’t want. It is very simple and easy for them. 

Wish we could do the same as a grown  up and we too had someone to fulfill our choices. 

Eg : You don’t want to face your boos today, simply start weeping when he summons you. He will understand your true feeling without getting offended,  off course. 

Easy, simple. But is it soo??? 

Coming Days 

Coming days will be bright and sunny. 

Love will be gifted abundantly and freely. 

Everything around us will be happy and funny. 

Smile will dance on our face merrily. 
This gone time was bad and so was our life. 

We lost our loved ones and our hopes. 

We still remember faces of our dead kids and wife. 

Bless now, bless us with strength to cope. 
I don’t praise you now,  for mercy. 

Neither,  am I afraid of your wrath. 

Time is strong and his diviness a fancy. 

Bless us to wash down our sins with last bath.
Mankind has been till now a shame and disgrace. 

Every deed of ours has been surreptitious. 

Bless sinners like us with your grace. 

We will emerge again as your marvellous creations. 

Copyright ©Vishal Raut

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QUESTION

This is not just a random post,  it is in fact the turmoil in my heart and my desperation to seek answer which will justify the morality of my soul and at the same time calm my ethics and principles. 

What if you know that what is happening  with you is wrong and you truly deserve better, but the better is being offered to someone else by top hierarchy, and if you take a stand against it, maybe you will get what you deserve but that soul will loose what he has been enjoying for a while. What will you guys do in such a case?? 

Comments and suggestions  needed!!! 

Help me my fellow  bloggers 🙁🙁🙁

Is Mankind Sinking??? 

​“No weight is required for a man fallen in well to sink,  he will go down by his own weight. Mankind is so heavily weighed down by its  own sin,  that it has already started sinking.” 

Do I believe this,  or should I believe this? Do you guys are also made to believe this or you think too so? 

I have been asking this myself from the moment I read it in a book.  The author obviously  wrote it,  because maybe his experiences at that moment with those around him,  would have been the reason for his belief. But then is it right to judge the entire mankind,  on one or maybe a series of bad experiences. 

Yes being judgemental about everything  that is happening in our life,  is the most common habit of everyone nowadays.  We humans have inherited it so wisely that sub consciously we are judging everyone and everything around us. Try it,  we cannot practice being non judgemental for even a hour continuously. Well I don’t know about you guys but I find it very difficult  to do so. 

The writer who made this statement mentioned above,  judged the entire mankind without a hesitation and he questioned  the existence  of our species on this planet. 

We, who have, over so many years evolved from Homosapien to the modern Human being of present era. Our kind has been able to survive and flourish  with ease and comfort,  thanks to our developed nervous system. 

Yes in our struggle to survive and develop our self in every dimensions of life,  we mankind did commit some,  in fact many unpardonable sins with everyone consent. Yes it was done with every one consent because we felt that was necessary  for us at that time for our survival and our comfort. 

Our sins are multiplying everyday and we are responsible  for it, but the question is,  when are we going to realize it? 

When are we going to learn differentiating  between our necessities  and requirements? 

When are we going to stop exploiting every living being and every resources  available on Mother Earth? 

When are we going to be compassionate,  kind and gentle than being angry,  arrogant and evil? 

When are we going to be humble an peace loving species than being war lovers and religion preachers? 

I have not lost faith in our kind yet and I believe even God has not yet given up on us. If he would have,  then everything  would have been ceased till now. No flower would have blossomed in gardens,  no fruit would have grown on trees,  no women womb would have been blessed  with a life. 


Comments most welcome!!! 

Copyright ©Vishal Raut 

Blank Page 

​Do you start your write up with a title or think of the appropriate title post completing it. The latter one suits me. 

When I pickup my pen and stare on a blank page, I generally have no idea what I am going to write about.  Yes sometime, in fact very few time,  I feel a sudden eruption of thoughts, unrestlessens and anxiety fills my heart an urges me to write, which after completion of my writing tends to subside. I feel relieved and lighter post completion. Though this happens quiet a few time with me, most of the time I am just staring at the blank page and pondering on what to write. 

Inspiration, muse are not gifted to everyone.  Some search for it within them,  some search it around them and some are gifted to have them forever. I am,  for sure that, I am not at all the gifted one. In fact I have to search it every time,  around, inside, everywhere 24*7. Most of the time the endeavor to seek my inspiration  goes on for days and months. 

You guys might be wondering, that why am I sharing this with you all? What is, so interesting  in it? Nothing  is special in my writing and I know that very well. But I will surely love to keep on writing for myself.  An amateur learner within me will surely want to master all the traits of writing and is willing to go through the extreme hardship to accomplish myself as the one who is capable to express every emotions of human life on this challenging blank page. 

This blank page, of which I am frightened of from last few days,  who stares me and questions my every words and thoughts, need to filled up to its brim with ink of my pen, and make him destroy the enemity dwelling  between us. 

Blank page must be the reason for my writing and a companion in my journey,  who will share everything with me. Nothing is surreptitious  between us.  This journey is surreal,  so don’t ever betray me, my friend. 
Copyright ©Vishal Raut

Right Time 

When in my arms you were in a deep slumber, 

When our breath lingered with each other merrily. 

I thought,  I should tell you then, 

But maybe that was not the right time. 

I STOOD AND LISTEN 

On a hot afternoon , I sat beneath a tree for a while,
Wondering where actually, I lost my smile.

Tall and erect  stood that mountain, ahead me with pride,

And wind embraced him with deep passion as his new bride.
He laughs on me and, teases me and my kind.

Deep green valley witnessing this, never minds.

“You human beings are so weak  and cripple” he says.

“Running away from yourself every time when you tripple” he says.
” You need us when you are lost”

“But never ever have you understood how much true love cost??”

True love hummn, I smirked on him and thought

What a time, even this mountain is thinking  I never fought.
I wanted to yell back at him so loud.

That even would have shivered his lingering cloud.

And say “You my friend don’t  judge me and my kind”.

“We can tame you and deprive energy from your lovely wind.”
His strength  and his valour are admirable.

But we humans are for sure most adaptable.

I did every argument  in my mind, but said nothing.

I stood in front of him and listened  everything silently,  nodding.

I wrote this with only one thing in mind , that is, every time we human in this today modern world are striving  to convince  our point or to win every argument of a day. This struggle  of us is unnecessary and unworthy  but still  we do it for the sake of it. Unknowingly  it has become our habit. 

Sometimes  we must be silent and listen  to everything  that is happening  around us. 

Stay awake and listen to everyone. It is fun to listen and understand  someone else prespective.

Copyright ©VISHAL RAUT


Happy New Year!!! 

So what is it? What do you want from me? Why are you making me go through this? When are you going to finish it with me? When is my agony and pain going to end? 

With so many questions in my heart,  I am going to end my year. For whom are this questions? Why are they so negative? No I don’t want to carry a hangover of my immoral deeds and  negative shadows hanging on my ankle and enter in coming  year. 

To be frank not much is going to change in this coming year,  within me,  with me and broadly speaking with the whole world also. 

This year ends and a new year starts, so let’s start fresh with new dreams,  resolutions  and ambitions – this all is a saga of time defined and described by humans, divided in years to make it countable to record history and major events in it. 

But the truth is our universe is completely unaware of it.  It has it’s own clock in which  this one year of mankind – 365 torturous, joyful and adventurous  days is just a mere speck on his timeline.

 So a major change to happen in our world will ultimately  require more than a year. In fact changes are happening now and it is so slow and gradual that we mankind are completely  unaware of it. The outcome of this changes on our world will be faced by generations to come and many years from now. 

But till then, like a typical human,  I am also completely engrossed in my gone year problems and asking my life,   when is she going to finish playing with me? And enrich me with its beauty and guide me to my destiny. 

I hope in this coming year she does that with me and I hope with everyone  around me too. What I am asking from my life is not so much at all,  because if our world is a small speck in our universe then how tiny our life might be in this universe and how micro our wishes may be. 

So let’s embrace our life  in this coming year with no questions,  blame and anger, on the contrary  embrace her with happiness,  innocence and love. 

Wish you all a very happy new year all my fellow bloggers and I will pray for you all. Let love and peace reside and blossom in every mankind heart in this coming year. 

Amen. 

 

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